ShopDreamUp AI ArtDreamUp
Deviation Actions
Am I the only one who intentionally makes funny mountains out of molehills to avoid potential awkwardness?
I mean like... Okay, so my cousin Jessica and I were stuck at the mall 'cause we were at a weird party and our other cousin dropped us off and went back to the party and blah blah, and he wasn't picking up his phone. So we were stuck. And another one of our friends, who she has this thing for, lives like a block away from the mall, so she wondered if she could call him up and ask if he would pick us up, except she didn't wanna be awkward about it, and she was having a cerebral hemorrhage about it, so I told her to just don't be awkward about it then, and she said that that would be impossible because she'd already asked him about hanging out earlier and he said no, so she didn't wanna be needy.
I mentally facepalmed, and then told her that she could just make a big deal of and therefore make fun of her alleged "needy"ness then, and then she told me to shut up because my brain doesn't match up with reality. :'c
Except it wasn't quite like that.
Anyway, what I'm trying to ask is this: If you're presented with a situation where the only action you could take would seem awkward or even possibly offensive, wouldn't exaggerating that awkward act show that you are aware of your behavior and enable you to laugh it off, while also permitting the act? Obviously this wouldn't work in formal or serious situations, like in a job meeting or a funeral home or something.
Yanno, if just acting self aware and nonchalant about it wouldn't work, at least.
Like, if I'm with my friends who don't care about video games and I see something about a game that I just can't help but mention, I would very possibly make fun of myself and say, "LIEKK OHMYGOODNESS SKYWARD SWORD COMES OUT ON LIKE, THE 20TH! LIEK, OHMYGOODNESS I'M GONNA HAVE A HEART ATTACK!! and then laugh at myself.
Am I the only one that does that? ;u;
I mean like... Okay, so my cousin Jessica and I were stuck at the mall 'cause we were at a weird party and our other cousin dropped us off and went back to the party and blah blah, and he wasn't picking up his phone. So we were stuck. And another one of our friends, who she has this thing for, lives like a block away from the mall, so she wondered if she could call him up and ask if he would pick us up, except she didn't wanna be awkward about it, and she was having a cerebral hemorrhage about it, so I told her to just don't be awkward about it then, and she said that that would be impossible because she'd already asked him about hanging out earlier and he said no, so she didn't wanna be needy.
I mentally facepalmed, and then told her that she could just make a big deal of and therefore make fun of her alleged "needy"ness then, and then she told me to shut up because my brain doesn't match up with reality. :'c
Except it wasn't quite like that.
Anyway, what I'm trying to ask is this: If you're presented with a situation where the only action you could take would seem awkward or even possibly offensive, wouldn't exaggerating that awkward act show that you are aware of your behavior and enable you to laugh it off, while also permitting the act? Obviously this wouldn't work in formal or serious situations, like in a job meeting or a funeral home or something.
Yanno, if just acting self aware and nonchalant about it wouldn't work, at least.
Like, if I'm with my friends who don't care about video games and I see something about a game that I just can't help but mention, I would very possibly make fun of myself and say, "LIEKK OHMYGOODNESS SKYWARD SWORD COMES OUT ON LIKE, THE 20TH! LIEK, OHMYGOODNESS I'M GONNA HAVE A HEART ATTACK!! and then laugh at myself.
Am I the only one that does that? ;u;
everything is different, send help
uh
oh gosh uh so I guess I haven't done anything here in like at LLLEAST half a year, whoops???
I'm gonna be going through and moving a lot of my old stuff either into a folder to be forgotten forever, or maybe into storage or somethin'. Personally I don't really wwwannnna move stuff to a place where no one can see it, since I think it's pretty cool to be reminded of your own growth, like Hey yeah, if 12 year old me could see what I'm doin' now, she'd flip! and I think that can be valuable for other people to see as well.
If anything I'm most mortified of my dumb views on stuff, but WHADDYA GONNA DO, it means I grew. Doesn't mean I'll keep
Hey dudes and dudettes, would you like a critique?
If so, just comment on this journal with a link to the thing you'd like me to critique, and maybe give me a thing or two you'd like help with/advice on in the piece<3
I've been going to Kendall College of Art and Design for like two years and I'd like to give back some knowledge to you guys, since I know there are probably quite a few younger people who watch me, or some people who'd rather self-teach.
I'd like to help you guys if I can ;u;
SO I JUST GOT BACK FROM ALMACON
with Brenda of Brenda Makes Things and it was super awesome and I met a whole ton of super awesome people! Thank you so so much to everyone who dropped by! It was both my first overnight con and my first time in the Artist Alley! Artist's Alley?
Anyway, if you were there and you saw me you should totally pipe up so I can thank you some more, because everyone who was there was so super A+ QuQ <3
I managed to sell some prints and uno dolla drawin's and turn a slight profit which was more than I was expecting ;u;
Also uh
A couple people who commissioned drawings from me didn't pick them up? I have a Marceline with her bass and a Fionna an
DO ANY OF YOU HAVE AN XBOX LIVE ACCOUNT
IF YOU DO (and you play any of the Assassin's Creed games) THEN ADD ME
Regardless of how well we know each other or how (in)frequently we speak
it would be cool if we could like play some games together or just revel in a slightly fuller friends list?
My gamertag is Frittles
let me love you
© 2011 - 2024 Firedblue
Comments23
Join the community to add your comment. Already a deviant? Log In
Haha, I've been thinking about this recently, actually.. I like to do it, too. Because in some situations, it seems like if you DON'T just do something really awkward and silly to break the ice, it's never going to be broken and there'll be this prolonged awkwardness which is definitely much more uncomfortable! So I find it's better to just go all out and laugh at yourself a bit, and, unless the other person is totally missing any sense of humour, it should make things less awkward. x)